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Parenting the Second Time Around

NicholasI am the mother of three grown children and 6 grandchildren.  My husband Timothy is retired and I am a food service worker in the Madison County School System.  I thought I was on the downhill side of my life, and then I was presented with my youngest grandson, Nicholas.  He had several medical problems including a heart condition and a kidney disease, so he was going to need a lot of extra attention.  He needed to be transported to several doctor's appointments and he had several out of town doctors, and he was taking a lot of different medications.  He was so fragile and his parents didn't have the transportation or the means to properly care for Nicholas.  They both agreed that we should get custody of Nicholas in order to meet his needs.  Here we are starting all over again with an infant who requires more than any of my own children.  What were we to do?

Then a family friend, who is a Foster Grandparent at Bright Days, recommended I go speak with Ms. Wendi, the Family Advocate, about getting Nicholas enrolled at Bright Days, a Kids Incorporated Early Head Start (EHS) center.  I was a bit apprehensive about placing him in a center due to his condition and developmental delays.  However after speaking with Ms. Wendi and hearing about their services and the support they provide I knew that Bright Days was the perfect place for Nicholas.  The staff - from the cook to the Family Advocate - have helped us to meet Nicholas' needs.  The caring teachers and Foster Grandparents made us feel right at home and have always taken on the extra duties with a smile that Nicholas requires. 

With the help of the Bright Days staff Nicholas has improved so much developmentally.  He went from being withdrawn and unable to talk - to singing songs and sharing toys with other children.  Mr. Chad, the Health & DisabilityCoordinator, helped us understand and cope better with Nicholas' conditions; he has always been there to help with any health question or concern.  Ms. Wendy has helped us learn to be parents again at a difficult time in our lives.  She has provided us with parent training and resources to help us better understand Nicholas' delays and how to help him reach his goals.  She has encouraged and supported us in meeting goals for both Nicholas and us as a family.  We are very grateful for the love and support that the Bright Days staff has shown us.

I was very concerned about how we were going to take on this very important responsibility of being parents again.  With the help of Bright Days we are making it through it and we cherish every moment we have with Nicholas.  Thank you for all you have done!

Mattie Wright

In Memory of Budd Bell

Budd Bell, founder and Board Member Emeritus of Kids Incorporated, died at age 94 on October 16, 2009 in Tallahassee.  Known to fellow Board Members and staff as the "conscience" of Kids Incorporated, she leaves behind a lifetime of accomplishments and a lasting legacy as a champion for children and their families. 

Budd's daughter and son-in-law, Bonnie Bell and David Todd, have developed the following offering: 

"As many of you know, two of Mom's favorite things were Kids Incorporated and the color purple.  In honor of her memory, we have created a set of six beautiful notecards.  These cards come six in a package, with envelopes, for $24 (plus tax).  They make wonderful gifts - for yourself and your loved ones.  Every sale benefits Kids Incorporated and keeps Mom's memory alive in our hearts.  The cards will be sold at the Kids Incorporated offices and centers.  The images are photo-collages composed of flowers and waterscapes from the Big Bend area." 

On the back of each card the elements are identified, and each features the following message:

"This card is one of the Spirit of Compassion series

Dedicated to the memory of Bess "Budd" Bell June 16, 1915 - October 16, 2009

May her love of beauty and love of people shine on

A portion of the proceeds benefit the Budd Bell Early Learning Endowment Fund for Kids Incorporated of the Big Bend.' 

The images of the six note cards are below.  Checks should be made payable to Bell and Todd.  For more information contact Judie at Kids Incorporated at 850.414.9800, ext. 104 or by email at This e-mail address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it .
 

Cards Honoring Budd Bell's Memory


Holiday Happiness

Holiday GiftThanks to everyone who helped make the holidays brighter for 99 children and their families!  The Kids Incorporated Holiday Happiness Project was a grand success and we couldn't have done it without the help of many people and organizations.  To everyone who "adopted" a family or a family member - a special thank you!  You made it possible! 

Special thanks to Aramark, who adopted a large number of families and did a terrific job shopping and making wishes come true!  Thanks, also to Florida Commerce Credit Union, who not only adopted children, but also for staff members who volunteered and helped unload and load bags of gifts. 

We also are grateful to First Florida Credit Union for their continued support in adopting children and to Radey Thomas Yon and Clark, who always do a great job decorating the bags of gifts - who knew garbage bags could look so festive?!!! 

Family members picking up the bags of gifts (and the many bikes!), were delighted at the generosity of our community, especially during these hard economic times.  Teachers and Family Advocates in our centers have told us that families adopted for this project were so grateful their children were able to receive the clothes, educational items and toys they otherwise would not have received.  They indicated there were delighted children as they opened their gifts!

Thank you Tallahassee, for opening up your hearts!  You made a difference in a child's life and created some special family memories!

Save the Date - Kidsfest 2010

Saturday, May 1, 2010

North Florida Fairgrounds

10 a.m. - 4 p.m.

For more information about sponsorship, exhibitor and entertainment opportunities, please visit:

http://www.kidsincorporated.org/events.html

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